duminică, decembrie 17

small things

... might seem unimportant to most. I get a lot the ...advice or whatever that I should be more serious or to not waste time with the stuff I am ... waisting my time with :)



I understand that when you are very sick, or someone from your family  is very sick, or in an extreme situation like war or famine you would not spend time on small things, or you would feel guilty to do so.



I was never in such very bad situation, well one time but was young and stupid so I didn't get the degree of seriousness :)



But really me and I see that many people also do spend time on small things and enjoy it and somehow do appreciate and give importance to it.



But also it brings joy.



Let see, to some people chatting with unknown people online brings them joy or whatever, for me sometimes it seems stupid but whatever I do also understand this: if makes you happy, do it.



All hobbies or however you define such activities seems stupid and frivolous to other people.


But I can honestly say that one or another of these activities made me happy even in my bad momments, no matter that they were not like life and dead moments or something.



Was it music or gaming or football... does it matter? If it gets you out of shit?

But I many times hear an idea like: there are so many people in the world that suffers and you... play games, or read books, or more in the line of me not doing some significant shit.



But most of the people want to have a decent, civilized, without problem, life, right?

What are you going to do then? Fight another war? What I think is that then people will have time for: spending it with family, play games, do sports, enjoy whatever the fuck they like. Am I wrong?

To be honest I do think that even in bad times these little things will help.



A good book will help no matter when. Maybe different book for different times/situation.



And then: why so serious?